+ Gift Cards/Vouchers

I really enjoy gift cards as they allow people to work within their means and allows me to buy the items I need when I need them. There are of course everyday items which are always useful like grocery items and then there are items which I desire, like frames from Ikea, which are not a necessary but make me very happy. The list below shows items which are most useful to me, although this is not an exhaustive list. Prezzee is my prefered voucher as it allows me to spend the gift voucher in one of 100 different stores.

• Prezzee (my favourite choice)

• Woolworths (a girls got to eat)

• Ikea (great for household necessities such as large gold art frames)

• Bunnings (Mistresses favourite store)

+ Tech and Gadgets

Maybe you have followed me on social media and if so you might know that I am a nerd for both gadgets and tech in general (also I am a total security and privacy obsessive, ask me about which VPN I used or which password manager I prefer (or sponsor mine)). Want to see me blog more, see more photos or enable me to enjoy my life more with better tech (such as an apple watch) then please do buy me a gift listed below:

• Apple Watch

• Apple iPad

• Apple Gift Card

• Underwater headphones and iPod I am a swimmer and a music nut so these would literally change my life.

+ Memberships/gift cards to arts and cultural institutions

If you've read many of my tweets or blogs, you will have seen that I am a huge fan of arts and cultural activities, be it contemporary dance, opera, art galleries. The below arts institutions are based in Sydney and I frequent often, why not indulge me or take me to something put on by them?

• Bangarra Dance Company (gift certificate)

• Sydney Theatre Company (gift certificate)

• Sydney Dance Company (gift certificate)

• MCA (membership)

• Art Gallery of New South Wales (membership)

+ Spa Treats

Anyone reading my twitter can see how much pleasure I get out of relaxation, an ultimate gift would be to paper me…

• Bodyharmonie Massage Vouchers

• Nature's Energy Gift Vouchers

• QT SpaQ Gift Voucher (or would you like to come on a spa date with me there instead, they have a steam, sauna, hot & cold pool)

• Langham spa (Sydney)

• Shangri-La spa (Sydney)

• Signature Day Spa (Sydney)

• Mornington Peninsula Spa (Melbourne)

+ BDSM Equipment and Gear

I am not a heavy gear head, when it comes to BDSM play but the additon of new equipment always brings new fun elements into sessions and creates new dynamics. This is a few of the things my heart most desires.

• Fetters Whipping bench (or almost any whipping/spanking bench would be utterly desirable, think of all the fun we could have together using it)

• Fetters Spanking horse There is so much you can do with a spanking horse cackles mischieveously

• Electric Wartenburg Wheel (wartenburg (aka Pin wheels) are one of my all time favourite tools, so having an electric one (and my love of electrics in general) would be wonderful

• Fetters Heavy Duty Sex Sling (specifically good for anal and fisting clients)

• Full Leather Sling- Beautifully designed hardy leather sling to go along with the sling/sex frame.

• Extreme Latex Vaccum Bed I am a lover of sensory deprivation and what is more delicious, torturous and teasing than a latex VacBed? Feel everything

• Heavy Leather Sensory Deprivation Hood As discussed above I love sensory deprivation and I also love hoods and gags, this hood in particular will take all the external stimulus away, leaving you at my disposal.

• Inflatable Gag For when you want them to be quiet for a while

• 5 Star Tesla Violet Wand If you've read above you will see that I really enjoy electroplay and this is the violet wand with all the attachments! I would very much like to add to my violet wand kit!

• Kalis Teeth I really enjoy CBT and these are one of my most desired items for said play.

• Humbler I really enjoy playing with a submissive wearing a humbler. Having them crawl around on the floor or even try to stand up is simply delicious.

• Stainless Steel Ball Crusher I do adore crushing balls or even nailing them to boards (I have done this with delight with another mistress) and this would be a wonderful addition to my tool kit.

• Flexible Vibrating Urethral Sound Both an adoration of sounding and electics makes this flexible sound a joy to play with.

• Penis Dildo Gag Mistress can fuck your gag whilst there is a dildo in your mouth. Such a teasing temptress.

• Horse Shaped dildo and but plug I think there is nothing more to add other than, doesn't everyone need one in their tool kit?

• Thick Double Ended Dildo For when you want double the pleasure betwen two people.

• Vibrating and Sucking Stoker A toy that does it all with 9 settings which I can just hold onto the submissives cock and therefore not touch it at all, using only the controls of the device to do as I will.

• Nose Hook For when I get to pull you around by your nose and make you wince.

• Jawbreaker Gag For those into ADBL play or being littles, this is the perfect gag, the Jawbreaker is replaceable and wonderfully colourful and you will be quiet for Mistres

• The Doxy The most powerful vibrator in the world (to date), I would like to add this to my Hitachi and Lelo vibrators which are my most used stimulators with clients.

• Shoulder length latex gloves I do love deep fisting and these gloves would allow me to explore to at my greatest depths. Size M please.

+ Wine

I am a huge fan of Pinot Noir, more than any other type of wines. Listed below is my favourite vineyard, which I have visited in Tasmania, but please feel free to bring me another Pinot Noir that you like

• Native Point's Pinot Noir

• Tamburlain Organic Wines Tamburlain are a Organic Vineyard which I have visited in the Hunter Valley. Their wines are delicious, I particularly like the Pinot Noir (even with the Shiraz blend) and the Rose (I like my Rose's crisp and with lemon notes).

+ Islay Whiskys

If you've read many of my tweets or blogs, you will have seen that I am a huge fan of both food and whiskey. Indulge us both by bringing a bottle of my favourite whisky to a session or sending me one and I will send you a photo and my tasting notes. I have not listed all the independent bottlings which I would be interested in trying, as there are a great deal of them (for example The Scotch Malt Society or The Boutiquey Whisky Company) but if you find one and think I will enjoy it, I am open to trying new flavours.

• Nick's Whisky and Wine Merchant Gift Voucher This is the best online store collection of whisky in Australia. Many of my favourite bottles of whisky have been gifted to me from this store and I would love to get a few more, unusual bottles from here.

• Dan Murphy's Gift Voucher Dan Murphys has a great whisky buyer and as a lover of wine, if I want to tip the balance away from whisky for a minute to wine, this gift card has the flexibility to do so. I always prefer to shop local but sometimes having a wide range is really important. I have brought some of my favourite bottles of Ardbeg from Dan Murphys.

• Samaroli Wild and Primitive Coal Ila My all time favourite whiskey. No longer available anywhere other than auction. This whiskey was an independent bottling of Coal Ila's 1998 whiskey. Peaty and just extraordinary, made by the now deceased master distiller Samaroli.

• Octomore 6.1 The most heavily peated of all Octomore's this 5 year old is firingly ferocious! Octomore is the most peated whiskey to date (highest part per million of peat (PPM). They're made by Bruichladdie, an Islay distillery.

• Octomore 7.1 First tried at my favourite bar, Baxters Inn and my introduction to Octomore, this whiskey has a kick and a burn and initially I did not like it and now it is a firm favourite. Not for the feint hearted.

• Octomore 7.3 First tried in Orange, NSW this is a wonderfully full bodied peaty monster. Has a slight burn and some hints of orange.

• Octomore 8.2 The latest Octomore's to add to ones collection. A little more subtle but still a great deal of kick and a little sweeter than the rest of the Octomore family. Only available in duty free.

• Octmore 9.1 I have just discovered the release of the latest Octomore's and I have, as yet, to try any. Octomore's are the most heavily peated whisky's currently available and I cannot wait to see what these drams taste like.

• Kilchoman Original Cask Strength I had never tried cask strength whiskey until I had the Laphroaig 10 year old Cask Strength at Baxters Inn. They are unique and very powerful and this Kilchoman is no exception to this rule. Strong and delicious.

• Kilchoman Red Wine Cask I have has yet to try this but I really enjoy anything by the Kilchoman distillery, the youngest distillery in Islay.

• Kilchoman Loch Gorman you can see this bottle in the background of my header image of this page. I am savouring the last few drops of this bottle but it is almost finished and I look forward to having another in my whiskey cabinet. Strongly peated and wonderful.

• Laphroaig Brodir as with all Laphroaig's this is a heavily peated blend, matured in bourbon and port casks and with a douse of peat.Laphroaig Lore my second favourite Laphroaig, only topped by the Laphroaig 10 year old cask strength, the Lore is aged between 7 and 21 years and is barrelled in 5 unique casks. Truly excellent.

• Laphroaig Triple Wood this was the first whiskey I was ever gifted and is still a firm favourite. More subtle than the 10yr standard of Laphroaig's but wonderfully tasty. I hope it won't be my only bottle.

• Laphroaig Lore this is joint favourite Laphroaig, along with the 10 year old cask strength. I often like the non aged expressions as they are more playful, they often use alternative barreling techniques and have distinctly new flavours. Also I know that these expressions are often limited editions which is really exciting.

• Bunnahabhain Eirigh Na Greine a firm favourite, the most peated Bunnahabhain I have tried thus far. Fiery and delicious.

• Compass Box Co's Peat Monster First tried in Duck Soup in Soho, London, it is truly smokey and delicious made by a distillery who tries to redefine the spectrum of whiskey.

• Arbeg's Ardbog everything by Ardbeg is delicious, they are one of my favourite distilleries and visiting Islay is top of my most wanted places to go to. Read more about whiskey travel dreams and obsession (Currently out of stock)

• Ardbeg's Dark Cove This is more smokey than the Ardbog and is matured in sherry casks, like the Quarter Cask, my favourite of Laphroaig's whiskey non age statements. (Currently out of stock)

• Ardbeg's Supernova when I first sampled this drink I did not believe it to be peaty enough, perhaps this is because it was after drinking an Octomore (which has the highest PPM of any whiskey) but recently I had the opportunity to re-try this and it is certainly impressive. No longer available in most stores, so please do buy it for me if you can find it (here is someone selling it as part of their private collection, hence the large price tag)

+ Lingerie

• Baby Likes to Pony Some of my favourite lingerie comes from this store, if you would like to take me shopping and see me try on some items, feel free to take me on a social date there. My bra size is a - 12F, underwear/knickers L

• Bordelle One of my favouite bras is from Bordelle, they have intricate bondage inspired designs and a kink themeatic whilst being truly visually beautiful. These are also stocked at Babylikestopony, along with Studio Pia (below).

• Studio Pia Delicate lace and beautiful designs

• Silent Arrow Melbourne based lingerie designers who make really beautiful lingerie and swimwear (check back later to see my latest photoshoot with some of their swimwear)

• Hopeless Lingerie Melbourne based designers who make beautifully constructed clothing with lots of interesting cut outs, which works well with my tattoos.

• Agent Provocateur

+ Plants and Plant pots

Reigning plant queen reporting in for duty. I have a moderate collection of pot plants and I am always looking for planter pots and native plants (of the small variety as I live in an apartment). If you would like to add to my growing and much loved collection, please gift me something from the list below (you can get plant updates if this would make you happy):

• Bunnings gift voucher Surely everybody knows that a Mistresses favourite shop is Bunnings. Here you can find plants, potting mix, an assortment of other BDSM related equipment.

• Trade the Mark Planter pot

+ Book Store Giftcards

I grew up in a bookshop, I adore books and I support independent bookstores. Please do not send me Amazon vouchers, I hate Jeff Bezos with the power of a leftwing protestor.

• Glee Books Gift Certificate I really enjoy Sydney Writers Festival, which Glee Books is the stockist of. Great selection of titles.

• Better Read than Dead Gift Certificate. Great community bookstore, not top of my list as they recently tried to stop their workforce from unionising.