There is an incredible amount of closeness and joy which vulnerability can bring. There is the depth of connection which only trust brings. There is safety and security which comes with a relationship in which you know that you are fully heard, seen and held.
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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite
Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled.
Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop.
Read MoreFirst steps in booking a session with me, what to expect.
Do you feel intimidated by the concept of booking a session with me?
Have you wondered what meeting me would be like?
Perhaps if I demystify part of this experience you will feel more confident in coming to me with your deep-seated desires and fantasies.
Read MoreGood communication gets my attention- introducing my online booking system
To aid us create the best communication and rapport we can before a session begins I have begun using a online booking scheduler which you can use to book time with me and fill out the corresponding questionnaire.
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