She begins a lecture and then cuts herself short, you have heard all this before from others, this time she is going to make you pay for your insolence. She has your details, she knows where you work and that you are married and she will go about making your life hell unless you concede to her plan of making you feel as wretched as you have had those girls feel, abusing their care towards your health needs.
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Safe words- aka traffic light system and why it’s my favourite
Safe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled.
Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop.
Read MoreThe catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story
This session, he wanted his first beat down experience. Perhaps when you think of beat downs you think of slapping and punching, there was indeed, plenty of both of these in our time together. There was, however, a plethora of intimacy.
Read MoreThe joy of playing with a well trained Submissive
It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.
Read MoreFemale Supremacy a Role Play Romance.
Role plays, nothing gets me going like them. They are the activity I most enjoy within BDSM. Their breath, scope, imagination, sensitivity. I revel in the vulnerability that they can bring.
I feel honoured when someone comes to me with a role play which allows them to explore a part of themselves which they do not often shed light on.
Read MoreA detailed fisting testimonial
I really enjoy fisting sessions. It is a great privilege and honour for someone to allow that level of intimacy to their body. It is something I truly revel in.
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