masochism

The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

The catharsis of pain and grieving- a beatdown story

This session, he wanted his first beat down experience. Perhaps when you think of beat downs you think of slapping and punching, there was indeed, plenty of both of these in our time together. There was, however, a plethora of intimacy. 

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The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

The joy of playing with a well trained Submissive

It is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.

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Sensory Depravation and the joys of the Blindfold

Sensory Depravation and the joys of the Blindfold

The blindfold is simply one of my most favourite tools in my chest of depravity. So simple and yet hugely elegant. Curtailing our most dominant sense allows us to explore the plethora of sensations we gain from others at much greater detail and with further nuance.

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