Recently a client wanted me to wear some specific clothes and outfits for a booking and we arranged a social date to go shopping for said items.
The client in question is a leather shoe fetishist. He knew exactly what type of shoes he wanted me to wear (both in and out of the session, if I were to meet him on a social date he would request a certain type of shoes). He wanted me to arrange play dates with very specific shoes in mind.
Read MoreIncall vs Outcall- the definition and why each one might suit you
Definition:
Incall- visiting me at my chosen work location and I host you, be that a dungeon or a more vanilla space
Outcall- me visiting you at your location whether that be a hotel, or for some disability clients, their supported accommodation/home
Each of these options have different pros and cons.
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Financial management, sometimes known as financial domination or FinDom. There are a multitude of different ways of financially managing a submissives money in a consensual manner which suits both parties.
I personally subscribe to the type financial management where we overlook a submissives finances and work out where the submissive could spend their money differently and repurpose the unnecessary spending to other areas. Perhaps we can look at your excess spending on eating out or smoking and repurpose this towards a not for profit or towards my phone bill.
I have submissives who I send my bills to every month and pay my: phone bill (although I have two phones, so if someone wants to pay for the other, that would work for me); pedicure and manicure bills and I am always looking for someone to pay my wine bills (mine is a pinot noir). The submissive and I have a discussion around what their spending capacity cap is or we have an overview of their finances when we begin financial management.
How the financial management looks varies from one submissive to another, some like to see photos of me spending their money, other prefer me to send them individual bills and then we message throughout the month so they can see how much I have left to enjoy of their newly spare cash. The process of financial management brings me great joy as I enjoy seeing where someones personal allowances go and I like working towards goals with individuals. This is a win win situation.
My submissives say that they enjoy financial management as they are able to give what they can afford and some are able do this in a way that allows them to be more healthy (such as the eating less take away food or smoking less) and they know that I am able to better enjoy myself with their money. There are many dynamics of financial management and I personally, do not subscribe to the female supremacy model, I want you to give me this money willingly because you believe that I deserve it and you want me to enhance my life and have fun. Subsequently you get to enjoy personalised photos of me enjoying myself with the cash that you have given me. Everyone wins.
If you would like to offer some monthly tributes or arrange to pay one of my monthly bills feel free to email me to discuss this further.
The corona virus pandemic has gotten me thinking of alternative ways to enjoy each others companies whilst on social dates. What activities I would adore to explore which keep others (other than my client at the time) at a suitable distance. What have I put off doing or would you love to explore in your free moments?
What are your joys and passions?
walking/hiking, pool or beach dates, canoeing and kayaking, sky diving, outdoor picnic, drive in cinema, outdoor spa, balloon dates, ferry rides, horse riding etc…
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Do you want a piece of me but you're too far away to be able to serve me or be in my presence? Have you always lusted after my lingerie, stockings or bra but not seen me advertise that these are for sale? I have a selection of worn lingerie and stockings which are available for purchase and will be gift wrapped and sent to you via post (please see the second photo in this blog to see my gift wrapping style).
I am delighted to announce that I will be returning to accepting clients again from 17th June. I am glad that I and so many others were able to adapt to new ways of working and being during this time of physically distancing.
I feel that our low community infection rate in NSW (and Australia in general) has made me feel comfortable returning to in person sessions and I look forward to sharing my new ideas with you.
I really look forward to returning to touring outside of NSW when sex workers are allowed to do so.
I believe that if you want to give to your dominant but do not have a lot of money there are certainly ways in which you can enrich the dominants life. The first question is what are the skills you have that could be useful to them?
Rather than thinking that every gift has to been impressive or immense, think about the things that would be useful for your dominant and their life. Ask them what are the small things you could do that would be of best value?
Read MoreThe initial photoshoot I did as a professional dominatrix and the first in a series of photosets which will allow you to explore the evolution of my work as a professional Mistress and the way this has been documented in my various photography collaborations.
Read MoreBlow jobs are real jobs; Stop censoring sluts; Sex worker rights are human rights; Tip her; Eat her pussy, pay her rent; My body is my fucking business. All of these statements about sex worker rights come from apparel made by sex workers.
Let us tell our stories, show you what we want you to know about our industry and what we care about.
The clothing below certainly states loudly, what some sex workers think about sex worker rights and how sex workers should be treated
Read MoreThis is a scene I enjoyed creating with a submissive I had not sessioned with before. This gives the readers an understanding of my love of role plays, chastity and female supremacy.
You, slut, literally couldn’t be useful to me. I have no idea how I will come to pimp out your arse or your mouth and make any money from you but you did answer my vague advert in the newspaper.
You really are a pathetic loser, at least you turned up in chastity. Little do some men know but, chastity devices come in a variety of different sizes (like cocks in general) and that I might not have a small enough cage on hand for you.
Corona virus has left thousands dead and countless others sick and many of the rest of the world in lock down.
At this time, due to my duty of care to both myself and to you, I will not be conducting in person sessions.
I have for some time been offering virtual sessions, Facetime, Skype, phone calls, text based services and have added a few options for these on my online booking page. So
Read MoreI have perused their whisky, tequilla and mezcal offerings, I know what I wish to order and I am looking forward to exploring by my dates side. Since coming to Sydney I have developed a whisky bottle shaped space in my heart for beautiful, seductive, small and beautifully or originally decorated bars.
Read MoreSafe words are just that, words that we use to be able to call (or stop) a scene when we need to, to make a scene safe for us to be vulnerable in and perhaps push our boundaries in a way that feels controlled.
Safe words are used to relay information regarding how someone is fairing in a kink scene, or for a top to check in with a submissive or bottom whilst in a kink scene. Safe words are words we use to indicate when we need play to stop, or keep going. These can take a variety of form and are often used because when playing with kink, words like stop, might not mean stop.
Read MoreI tell you to undress and return to see me. You look shocked but you acquiesce. When you return I am sitting down and beckon you to lie over my knee. This is when the spanking begins. I do not give you a warm up, you do not deserve one, I want you to feel this for the upcoming days as a reminder of your selfish behaviour.
Read MoreWhen I felt you had throughly ruminated on your behaviour I decided to give you the last and most harsh part of the punishment, the cane. I brandished 5 different canes, from crooked handled to straight canes from thin to thick. I worked you over at first lightly tapping your arse and then moving onto firmer and firmer strokes.
Read MoreThis session, he wanted his first beat down experience. Perhaps when you think of beat downs you think of slapping and punching, there was indeed, plenty of both of these in our time together. There was, however, a plethora of intimacy.
Read MoreIt is a true delight when a submissive does mean “Do whatever makes you happy Mistress”. When they have really thought about their boundaries and comes to the table (I literally do my pre session negotiations around a table) with knowledge of their bodies limits and their hard and soft limits and can say “I want to do whatever makes you happy Mistress.” It is literal joy to my ears.
Read MoreWhen I began working independently I missed this comraderie, therefore when Mistress Penelope asked if I wished to join Domina Parties, a Multi Mistress, Multi Slave Play Parties I jumped at the idea. The initial play party I participated within was in with Mistress Penelope and Mistress Salem and I loved it, I felt like I was back at the house of domination but with more slaves and in a more supportive environment. I witnessed a playfulness amongst Mistress Penelope and Mistress Salem that I found infectious, we tried things in combinations I had not tried before and I was hooked.
Read MoreHard limits are things (be they actions, words, items or spaces) which an individual does not wish to use in kinky play. A hard limit could be literally anything, some of the most common ones I have come across when negotiating play scenes have been: tickling; spitting; blood; humiliation; pain; golden showers; caning; claustrophobia…
Read MoreRole plays, nothing gets me going like them. They are the activity I most enjoy within BDSM. Their breath, scope, imagination, sensitivity. I revel in the vulnerability that they can bring.
I feel honoured when someone comes to me with a role play which allows them to explore a part of themselves which they do not often shed light on.
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